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Posted: Fri May 26, 2006 7:22 am Post subject:
Mikes! wrote:
T-shirts are easy gifts. The hell you talking about?
i don't wear tshirts. they just don't flatter me.
re: buying ladies clothing. never buy her lingerie, just a gift card for it. those are sizes you do not want to screw up. sizing varies from store to store anyway, so you're better off playing it safe.
Gender: Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 1513 Status: User Location: Engaland
Posted: Fri May 26, 2006 11:01 pm Post subject:
sluttering wrote:
Mikes! wrote:
T-shirts are easy gifts. The hell you talking about?
i don't wear tshirts. they just don't flatter me.
re: buying ladies clothing. never buy her lingerie, just a gift card for it. those are sizes you do not want to screw up. sizing varies from store to store anyway, so you're better off playing it safe.
Truth. OR take your lady shopping WITH you for lingerie. I love going sexy panty shopping. It's fun.
I wear T-shirts, but only if they are two things: long and tight _________________ Yep.
Gender: Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 1513 Status: User Location: Engaland
Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 9:01 pm Post subject:
Yes. I'm double posting. It's been long enough....
So, I'm prettttty sure that things with Neil are oooooover. He blew up at me this afternoon, after seeing X-Men 3. On the drive home, I was a little quiet. Then I said something about how I saw Adam when I was in Tillsonburg on the weekend, and how it was weird. Then he got kind of defensive, and said how I was in a bad mood and "hating life these days". I don't know why....but I said, "I'm not hating life. I just hate where I am in it right now".
He took a lot of offense to that, even though I continued by saying that I expected myself to have so much more at this stage in my life. He dropped me off at my door, and told me that he couldn't do this with me anymore, because "You're never happy".
So I let him leave, because I wasn't going to fight with him. So he comes on MSN, and is being a complete asshole, and telling me that he can't be with a girl that's always mad at him. I told him I wasn't always mad at him, because I'm not. But I also told him that I was frustrated with the present situation between us (his lack of wanting to committ to me, despite his saying he loved me). He did his usual speach about how he's not ready for a girlfriend, and then said that pressuring him now to make that committment was stupid. His words: "Commit to this? This right now? Fighting? Are you crazy? I am NOT going to commit to this".
And then he said he had to go, and that he would call me later. So here I am, destraught. A part of me just wants this thing to end, because I really do deserve better. _________________ Yep.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 2:39 am Post subject:
Sexy_Sakura wrote:
Yes. I'm double posting. It's been long enough....
So, I'm prettttty sure that things with Neil are oooooover. He blew up at me this afternoon, after seeing X-Men 3. On the drive home, I was a little quiet. Then I said something about how I saw Adam when I was in Tillsonburg on the weekend, and how it was weird. Then he got kind of defensive, and said how I was in a bad mood and "hating life these days". I don't know why....but I said, "I'm not hating life. I just hate where I am in it right now".
He took a lot of offense to that, even though I continued by saying that I expected myself to have so much more at this stage in my life. He dropped me off at my door, and told me that he couldn't do this with me anymore, because "You're never happy".
So I let him leave, because I wasn't going to fight with him. So he comes on MSN, and is being a complete asshole, and telling me that he can't be with a girl that's always mad at him. I told him I wasn't always mad at him, because I'm not. But I also told him that I was frustrated with the present situation between us (his lack of wanting to committ to me, despite his saying he loved me). He did his usual speach about how he's not ready for a girlfriend, and then said that pressuring him now to make that committment was stupid. His words: "Commit to this? This right now? Fighting? Are you crazy? I am NOT going to commit to this".
And then he said he had to go, and that he would call me later. So here I am, destraught. A part of me just wants this thing to end, because I really do deserve better.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 3:13 am Post subject:
That guys a fuck. Seriously, what the hell? You can get WAY better than him, like say, some one who actually cares about you. I don't see why you event went THAT far with him, he seems like a total ass.
"Hey I'm not ready for a girlfriend so let's go on a date so I can blow up at you for no reason." _________________
Gender: Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 6077 Status: Moderator
Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 4:42 am Post subject:
Man, SS... I tell ya...
I dunno what you should do, but I do know what I would say.
Something along the lines of, "No, you wouldn't be committing to this fighting, 'cause this fight is about your not committing! I hate fighting as much as you do, but I'm sick of this. Either you're going to get over your problem, commit to me and suffer through the occasional drama, or you're going to learn your lesson years from now and probably end up committing to a drama queen. But that's fine, you don't have to commit to me or anyone... it's just that I can guarantee that all the other girls you do this to will get sick of it even faster than I did. Get over yourself now, or find someone else who'll have this same fight with you in under two months."
... yeah, something like that.
dunno if that helps. _________________ Come into my den let me hear you cluck
You can be my hen and we can f(Bu-GAWK)
A bite to the leg, it's time to play
Baby, let me be your egg that needs to get laid.
- CEO Nwabudike Morgan
"The Chicken of Lust"
Gender: Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 1513 Status: User Location: Engaland
Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 7:02 pm Post subject:
Bonnie, beer sounds like a wonderful idea. I'll crack one open, and drink it in your honour. Heh heh.
And ITS, what you said is basically what I said to him. And he apologized a million zillion times, and begged me not to "give up on him" and to "be patient".
Heh heh.
So now I've got him begging me not to go. We'll see what I do. I'm probably going to stop seeing him, but I've got to admit...it feels kind of nice to make him cry (instead of the other way around). _________________ Yep.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 7:20 pm Post subject:
Sexy_Sakura wrote:
And he apologized a million zillion times, and begged me not to "give up on him" and to "be patient".
Awesome! Maybe he'll get over his drama problem now. _________________ Come into my den let me hear you cluck
You can be my hen and we can f(Bu-GAWK)
A bite to the leg, it's time to play
Baby, let me be your egg that needs to get laid.
- CEO Nwabudike Morgan
"The Chicken of Lust"
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