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Yazz · Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 6:21 am Post subject: Funerals

My nans just died, and now the family wants me to attend the funeral but i dont particuarly want to, i dont know, its just i dont really feel i need to say goodbye,
anyone else have an opinion about this?
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Its_The_Sneak!!! · Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 6:24 am Post subject:

you should go. Funerals aren't all about respect for the dead, they're mostly about helping the living get over the loss.
And your presence will help the other people there do that.

So go.
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Steveo · Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 9:16 am Post subject:

Sexy_Sakura · Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 7:01 pm Post subject:

Well, I think you should go to support your family, if not for yourself. They clearly want you to be there.

I've been to a few funerals in my day, and I always feel better when I get to grieve with loved ones. Then, at the reception afterwards, everyone talks about the good times, and it really makes you appreciate the person you lost. I dunno. You should go, at least to the reception afterwards.
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Beyond the Grave · Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 8:56 pm Post subject:

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I've never gone to a funeral. Not even my Grandma's (she died in Colombia and only my mom went).

To tell you the truth, it never really bothered me that I didn't go to her funeral. It's not like she would know, and it's not like not going to her funeral is a sign of disrespect or unaffection.

Its_The_Sneak!!! · Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 9:48 pm Post subject:

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Yazz · Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 11:22 pm Post subject:

my dad an i live in a different state to the rest of the family, and i had never really had much to do with my grandparents or much of the rest of the family really, theres going to be about 30 family members going to the funeral even if i dont, i dont regret losing anyone, im happy because they had a chance to live, anything after the fact is irrelevent to me, thats probably the reason why i dont like funerals.
and you do know my name is Zac right?
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Its_The_Sneak!!! · Posted: Thu Jun 01, 2006 1:29 am Post subject:

Yazz · Posted: Thu Jun 01, 2006 1:59 am Post subject:

probably a stupid thing to write in the first place, its alright, thanks anyway.
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